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ON YOUR WEDDING DAY

Anonymous

Today is a day you will always remember

The greatest in anyone’s life

You’ll start off the day just two people in love

And end it as Husband and Wife

 

It’s a brand new beginning, the start of a journey

With moments to cherish and treasure

And although there’ll be times when you

Both disagree

These will surely be outweighed by pleasure

 

You’ll have heard many words of advice in the past

When the secrets of marriage were spoken

But you know that the answers lie hidden inside

Where the bond of true love lives unbroken

 

So live happy forever as lovers and friends

It’s the dawn of a new life for you

As you stand there together with love in your eyes

From the moment you whisper ‘I Do’

 

And with luck all your hopes and your dreams can be real

May success find its way to your hearts

Tomorrow can bring you the greatest of joys

But today is the day it all starts.

WEDDINGS

TODAY

Anonymous

Today…I look into your eyes

The one with whom I can share anything

My deepest hopes and heart-filled dreams

Inner fears and sheltered insecurities

My most warming joys and overwhelming triumphs

All future journeys that I have left to encounter

This and more I know I can share with you.

 

Today… I take pride in you

With admiration I look upon you and smile

For all that you are and all that you do 

That makes me so proud

Every part of you that I have come to adore

And for all those parts I have not yet learned.

 

Today … I share my soul with you

My lost prized possession 

Which no other has been given

I share it with great confidence and trust

Because with you I am at peace 

And I know with you it is safe

You give me warmth that I keep with me always

And what else can I give to someone 

Who has given me so much

For you have opened my eyes to see a love

Which before you I was blind to.

Today … I am marrying you.

THE PROMISE
by Eileen Rafter

The sun danced on the snow with a sparkling smile,

as two lovers sat quietly, alone for a while.

Then he turned and said, with a casual air

(Though he blushed from his chin to the tips of his hair),

“I think I might like to get married to you”

 

“Well then,” she said, “Well there’s a thought,

but what if we can’t promise to be all that we ought.

If I’m late yet again, when we plan to go out.

For I know I can’t promise I’ll learn to ignore

dirty socks and damp towels strewn all over the floor.

 

So if we can’t vow to be all that we should 

I’m not sure what to do,

though the idea’s quite good”.

But he gently smiled and tilted his head

till his lips met her ear and softly he said

 

“I promise, to weave my dreams into your own,

that wherever you breathe will be my hearts’ home.

I promise, that whether with rags 

Or with gold I am blessed

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Your smile is the jewel I will treasure the best.

Do you think then, my love, 

We should marry - do you?”

“Yes” she said smiling “I do”.

BORN YESTERDAY

by Phillip Larkin

Tightly-folded bud,

I have wished you something

None of the others would:

Not the usual stuff

About being beautiful,

Or running off a spring

Of innocence and love –

They will all wish you that,

And should it prove possible

Well, you’re a lucky girl.

 

But if it shouldn’t then

May you be ordinary;

Have like other women,

And average of talents:

Not ugly, not good looking,

Nothing uncustomary

To pull you off your balance,

That, unworkable itself,

Stops all the rest from working.

In fact, may you be dull –

If that is what a skilled,

Vigilant, flexible,

Unemphasised, enthralled

Catching of happiness is called.

NAMINGS

THROUGH BABY'S EYES

Anonymous

I didn’t expect a brass band,

With welcome mat unfurled,

To be on hand when I arrived,

In this confusing world.

 

Nor did I expect a doctor,

To hold be by the feet,

Then quickly turn me upside down,

And spank me on the seat.

 

At first I wasn’t quite prepared,

For this enormous place,

Nor for the funny characters,

That I would have to face.

 

But I soon learned to get my way,

By looking sweet and shy,

And when I wanted to be held,

To make a fuss and cry.

 

I’ve found it really doesn’t take,

Much difficulty of guile,

To wrap them round my finger,

All I need to do is smile.

A CHILD'S THOUGHT

by Robert Louis Stephenson

At seven, when I go to bed,

I find such pictures in my head:

Castles with dragons prowling round,

Gardens where magic fruits are found;

Fair ladies imprisoned in a tower,

All lost in an enchanted bower;

While gallant horsemen ride by streams

The border all this land of dreams

I find, so clearly in my head

At seven, when I go to bed.

 

At seven, when I wake again,

The magic land I seek in vain;

The chair stands where the castle frowned,

The carpet hides the garden ground

No fairies trip across the floor

Boots, and no horsemen, flank the door,

And where the blue streams rippling ran

Is now the bath and water-can;

I seek the magic land in vain

At seven, when I wake again

WHEN YOU WERE HERE

by Peter Tobit

The days, they have shortened

Nights have all grown cold

Memories, they have lengthened

Of days that are not so old

 

Times when we were together

Singing.....having fun

Times that have now long gone

A memory not to be undone

 

Songs that dont need lyrics

Words that dont need songs

Dances that dont need dancing

Together, we all played along

 

Those days are in the past now

And as much as we do our best

We can't relive those magical times

When you were here with us.

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FUNERALS

IF YOU SEE TOMORROW

by Peter Tobit

If you see tomorrow

Let it know that I might be late

I'm hoping that my past catches up

Erasing the last few horrendous years

The few years that I'd like to forget

But can't.......

 

If you see tomorrow

Let it know that I might not make it

Tell it, I am trying…..but feel so unsure

Putting one foot in front of the other

I am trying to slowly move forward

But can't........

 

If you see tomorrow

Please pass on my wishes & gratitude

I am thankful for the decades of life

For the ups, downs and sideways

I would have liked to tell it personally

But can't........

YOU'RE STILL THERE

by Peter Tobit

To feel you cup my tear soaked face

To have you stroke my hair

To feel the reassurances

That you will always be there.

​

To feel the sun, the snow, the wind

Yes, even to feel the rain,

The walk I take through lonely woods

Just to hear the birds sing once again.

​

To know you're at peace at last

From all the suffering and pain

This is all that I truly hope for

Again and again and again.

​

These are my longings and my hope,

My yearnings and my prayer

But now and then please let me know...

Let me know that you're still there.

BETTER LOVE

by Luther Vandross

Who could love you better
There is no reason,

You should ever worry what I'm doing.
While you're gone, I'm being true to you,
My fire burns for your return
And I'll just dream of you until you do

See I never could replace your love with anyone's,
I do believe it's easier said than done,
No matter whose promises you dream of
Go search the world,
You couldn't find a better love

​

SOMEONE LIKE YOU

by Van Morrison

I've been searchin' a long time
For someone exactly like you

I've been travelin' all around the world

Waitin' for you to come through

Someone like you
Make it all worth while
Someone like you
Keep me satisfied
Someone exactly like you

I've been travelin' a hard road
Baby, lookin' for someone exactly like you

I've been carryin' my heavy load

Waitin' for the light to come shinin' through

Someone like you
Make it all worth while
Someone like you
Make me satisfied
Someone exactly like you

LOVE LETTER TO JUNE

by Johnny Cash

We get old and get used to each other.

We think alike. We read each other's minds.

We know what the other wants without asking.

Sometimes we irritate each other a little bit.

Maybe sometimes.....

We take each other for granted.

 

But once in a while, like today,

I meditate on it and realize just

How lucky I am to share my life 

With the greatest person I ever met.

You still fascinate and inspire me.

You influence me for the better.

You’re the object of my desire,

The reason for my existence.

I love you very much.

LYRICS

Peter Tobit

Essex, Kent & South East UK based

Independent Civil Celebrant

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